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50+ Sexual Questions To Ask Your Partner

These sexual questions to ask your man will help you step away from the age-old question of “What are you wearing?”

For upping the passion and heat in a bedroom, there’s almost nothing that beats dirty talk. But what if you don’t know what to say? Are you nervous or do you feel awkward and lost when it comes to what to say? Curious about what your man likes? Too shy to think of questions yourself? Try these questions on for size!
Here is our list of 50+ sexual questions to ask your boyfriend for those who have already been serious in the bedroom or are just beginning to take steps in that direction! These will give you an inside look into what makes him tick!

The aim of the questions is for both of you to discover new things and kinks about each other in a way that’s fun and interesting. It’s also a great way to show your man how adventurous you are.

So below, you’ll find sexy questions to ask a guy for a fun sex game. But don’t just use these questions on him during dirty talk! Try to also come up with your own based on the ones you’re about to read.
You’ll find that you don’t necessarily have to get wild and nasty when coming up with your own. Some of the best dirty, sexy questions you can ask your man are actually quite tame while at the same time hinting at something naughty or kinky.
And remember, these work great for phone sex sessions or as sexy messages for sexting.


  • Do you like it when I take control in bed, or do you like being in control?
  • Have you ever had sex in a public place
  • Do you think you could get me off just by kissing me and touching my breasts? Want to try?
  • Which is more important to you – boobs or butt?

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  • Have you ever been to a strip club? When’s the last time you went?
  • Do you like me with makeup, or without?
  • You get to sleep with one and only one celebrity – who is it?
  • Would it make you upset if you saw me making out with a really hot woman?

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  • Out of everything you’ve ever done during sex, what was your favorite?
  • Choose one – I wear yoga pants for the rest of my life, or I wear super short skirts for the rest of my life.
  • When I’m on top, what’s your favorite position?
  • Have you ever tried anal sex? What did you think?
  • Do you prefer if I shave, trim, or let it grow down there?
  • Try to guess – what’s the color of my underwear right now?
  • What’s your nastiest, most x-rated fantasy?
  • What’s the dirtiest thing you’ve ever done with someone?
  • What part of your body is the most sensitive – and how do you want me to touch it?
  • When you’re on top, what’s your favorite position?
  • Has anyone ever caught you while you were masturbating?
  • Ever try using a sex toy during sex?
  • Be honest – when’s the last time you masturbated?
  • You can only have one type of sex for the rest of your life – oral, anal, or regular. Which one do you pick?
  • Spit or swallow?
  • In an ideal world, how long would foreplay be?

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  • What do my lips taste like?
  • Is there a sexy scene from a movie that you want to recreate with me?
  • If you had a pair of x-ray glasses, which part of my body would you look at first?
  • If you could only touch me in one place, where would it be?
  • If we were in a movie theater, and I wanted to do it, what would you want me to do?
  • What’s one thing you want me to do to you that I haven’t done?
  • What would you do if I sent you a dirty photo of me?
  • How would you describe your package?
  • What’s the most number of times you’ve done it in a row?
  • Do you like watching me touch myself?
  • What was the last dirty dream you had? Was I in it?
  • What’s a naughty fantasy you have about me?
  • What’s one public place where you would want to do it?
  • Can I watch you pleasure yourself?
  • How would you feel if I made you breakfast while wearing only an apron?
  • Do you prefer doing it in the morning or night?
  • Rough or sensual?
  • What’s the longest intimate session for you?
  • What was your first time like?
  • Do you like getting tied up? How about tying me up?
  • Have you ever had a friend with benefits?
  • Have you ever hooked up with someone you weren’t supposed to hook up with?
  • Have you ever used food during intimacy?
  • Have you ever gotten a lap dance?

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  • Are you part of the mile high club?
  • Have you ever played strip poker?
  • What’s the wildest thing you’ve ever done?
  • Do you like BDSM?
  • Would you let me pleasure you while you were driving?
  • What’s the dirtiest thing you’ve though about doing to me?
  • Do you own any toys?
  • Have you ever been inside a gentlemen’s club?
  • What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever done it?
  • If you were looking at movies online, what do you look for?
  • Do you like your hair pulled?
  • Do you prefer top or bottom?

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  • Have you ever done it in the backseat?
  • Have you ever had a one night stand?
  • Do you like when I talk dirty to you?
  • Have you ever taken naked pictures of yourself?
  • Do you like when I send you dirty pictures?
  • Have you ever 69’ed?
  • Have you ever been in an open relationship?
  • Have you ever done a striptease for anyone?
  • Would you ever do it during my time of the month?
  • Have you ever watched porn in a public place?
  • Do you think you could ever be a porn star?
  • Would you ever have a threesome with another guy?
  • Have you ever hooked up with the same gender?
  • Do you consider yourself to be kinky?
  • Have you ever done it against a wall?
  • Have you ever measured yourself?
  • Can you help me undress?
  • Do you want to spank me?
  • Do you think that I can handle you?
  • Have you ever choked someone during sex?
  • Do you like being naked or are you shy about it?
  • Do you realize how hot you are?
  • Do you like to use your tongue when you make out with someone?
  • Have you ever had sex in front of a mirror?
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