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More often than not seen as an ordeal to be survived, rather than the highlight of your social calendar. Women often remember listening to the firm’s auditor's scintillating overview of company results for half an hour, rivalled only by having to fend of the amorous advances of a very young, very drunk accounts executive.

Arrive early    This is a good chance to chat with senior executives in a relaxed atmosphere before it gets too hectic. View the party as a way of making valuable contacts and to enhance your status in the new year.

Don’t be a wallflower  Circulate, don’t stay in your own little work clique of colleagues. Move around and try not to stay more than 10 minutes with a particular person. You never know who can help you move up the ladder.

Do your homework   Is it a single invitation or is my spouse, partner invited? Don’t just assume.

What is the dress code?     If in doubt dress smarter than more casually.

Is it necessary to RSVP?    If so do it within 48 hours.

Who else is coming, suppliers, clients?

Dress the part   Be remembered for what you have achieved, not for what you have revealed. This is not an opportunity for you to show off your belly–ring, tattoo, or any other form of bodily decoration that is usually reserved for the beach.

No flirting    Even though the mistletoe may be in abundance avoid the urge to use it. Respect the physical boundaries of others, that way they will respect you in the morning. Avoid being too "touchy" and provocative on the dance floor. When you find yourself barefoot on the table with cat calls and people yelling, "Take it off!", you have overstepped the boundaries of what is acceptable.

Don’t talk business   Nobody wants to talk business at the company party. This is a time to find out what your co–workers like to do outside the office. Strive to find at least 2 things in common with all you meet.

Stay in control   Eat, drink and behave in moderation. Have a snack beforehand to quell tummy gurgles. Don’t hang around the buffet table or bar like a vulture. Over indulgence in alcohol has ruined many a career, know your limits.

Respect cultural, religious diversities   Never force anyone to drink, dance or become overly familiar – this may offend their religious or cultural beliefs.

The Perfect Guest   Make sure that you end up on the A–list (pleasure to have around) rather than the D–list (remind me never to invite him/her again!)
Reply either positively or negatively (not maybe) when answering an invitation. Do it promptly within 48 hours, to assist the hostess in her planning.
Don’t sample food off others plates unless encouraged to do so.
Do get merry and perky, not drunk and loud.
Provide sincere compliments, on the food, décor etc.
The perfect guest is enthusiastic and considerate. Treat fellow guests, the host as well as their property with respect.
Remember to thank the organizers and your host on leaving, good manners gain you respect.
The morning after the night before ... call or send a thank you letter or e–mail.

Professional Impressions  Tel: 011 469 1396 Email: haydee@profimpressions.co.za www.profimpressions.co.za