Learning to Age
We were born into a society in which aging has always been taken for granted. Old age was a time of inevitable decline and loss, of increasing feebleness of mind and body. We have seen the social consequences of the old, with their deteriorating minds and bodies, and the rejection of and disinterest in them by the younger and more vigorous.
We were born into a society in which aging has always been taken for granted. Old age was a time of inevitable decline and loss, of increasing feebleness of mind and body. We have seen the social consequences of the old, with their deteriorating minds and bodies, and the rejection of and disinterest in them by the younger and more vigorous.
Since most of us have believed we can do nothing about our aging, the history of aging has been characterized by hopelessness. And, those fearful images of growing old, coupled with high rates of disease and senility among the elderly, have resulted in grim self-fulfilling expectations.
There are societies in this world in which people share very different styles of conditioning and, therefore, very different styles of aging. In recent decades, anthropologists have been surprised to discover how many so-called primitive people are immune to signs of aging that the West has long accepted. In fact, there are at least 25 traditional societies around the world where heart disease and cancer, two diseases long associated with aging, are almost unknown.
However, our inherited expectation that the body must wear out over time, coupled with deep beliefs that we are fated to suffer, grow old and die, creates the biological phenomenon we call aging. Although our awareness gets programmed in thousands of ways, the foundation for what we believe about our own aging comes from a lifetime of observation, imitation and reasoning.
The number of impressions that was laid down in our heads during childhood is staggering, with estimates that the verbal cues fed to us by parents alone amounted to over 25,000 hours of pure conditioning. Add to this the attitudes passed along from family, peers and society from earliest childhood, and you see how the learning process, teaching us how to age, is complex and never-ending.
For example, what did your mother say when she got her first wrinkles? Did she feel she had lost her youth? Did she still feel pretty and desirable? What about your dad? Did he like retirement? Was it the end of a useful existence or the beginning of a better time? How about your grandparents? Was their health good? Did they spend their time in a nursing home barely able to get around, or were they youthful, active, fun-loving people always with a house full of grandkids?
The impressions of these past experiences lock our minds into predictable patterns that trigger predictable behavior. So although we dont consciously want to end up the way they may have ended up, many times we can be on the threshold of duplicating how they aged by unconsciously adopting their belief system.
Aging and Awareness
Awareness makes a huge difference in aging, and, although every species of higher life ages, only humans know what is happening to them, and we translate this knowledge into aging itself.
Awareness has the power to lead us towards wellness since the very act of paying conscious attention to bodily functions, instead of leaving them on automatic pilot, will change how we age. Thus, we develop new habits, new behavior, new expectations and new beliefs that can help make us well. On the other hand, giving up on awareness and standing on past habits, rituals, beliefs and other worn-out behavior, may help us continue going in the same direction.
Ask yourself today: Are you satisfied with the direction of your health? Is it taking you where you want to be?
Preventive Medicine Saves Lives
Preventive medicine is the key to wellness and rejuvenation. In many systems of alternative medicine, the preventive measure is the same as the cure. This is because many natural remedies simply help to bring the body back into balance, allowing the body to use its own wisdom to heal.
Although lifestyle changes are the major infrastructure of preventive medicine and good health, it is now readily accepted that nutritional supplementation can help maximize your potential for living a long and healthy life. Well say it again and again, you are in charge of your own well being.
Theres a great joy in living a healthy way. Were all in this war against aging together. Lets win the battle!
By Dr. Costa Kapnias of ZOI Wellness
