3. Intimacy
Men want a partner who will listen, who will volunteer information about their own lives and discoveries and someone who smiles and excitedly shares their hopes and dreams.
If this is at all surprising it may be from the fact that men don’t generally know how to communicate this. In their existing relationship, they have the tendency is to think, “We’re married so therefore I know everything about you … ” In a new relationship everything is new and exciting and learning about the new partner is initially easy and the feeling of intimate connection is created.