Another natural way to get into the mood is to treat your ears. A lot of the time the sounds of demanding children, constant beeping and ringing of cell phones and the general noises of life can add to our stresses. This in turn, can sabotage your sex life in a major way. So treat yourself and your man to some passionate music and shut out the rest of the world. Anything from the Fifty Shades of Grey soundtrack should do quite well or any slow sensuous music that you have will put you both in a relaxed mood.