Let us get to the nitty gritty, none of the other senses mean a thing if he is not touching you the way that you want to be touched. A good way to begin is a relaxing massage. This does not have to be for the sole purpose of sex but to really improve intimacy through physical touch. If you are particularly open to experimenting you can bring in a blind fold and feather into the bedroom. Be prepared for him to tease and please you out of your sexual hibernation.