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10 Amazing Facts About Sexual Attraction

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From the subtle to the surprising, here’s what science tells us about the forces that attract you to others — and them to you.

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Your Parents’ Ages Influence It

A person born to a couple in their thirties grows up to find older faces more attractive than does one with younger parents, finds a study at the University of Saint Andrews in Scotland. That is, college-aged women with “older” parents were likelier to find wrinkled, weathered faces attractive for either a fling or a marriage. The same was found for young men when considering a woman for a long-term relationship. (Take note: only a man’s mother’s age, not his father’s, influenced his attraction to older women.)

Something Was In The Air

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When women breathe in androstadienone, an often-odorless testosterone derivative in male sweat, they give men higher attractiveness ratings than they would otherwise. After about 15 minutes of exposure, the chemical makes a woman subtly more attentive, aroused and even happier, with effects continuing for up to an hour, finds a study led by Claire Wyart at the University of California at Berkeley. (In case you’re wondering, men vary in their androstadienone levels — and no, the chemical doesn’t brainwash women into having sex or falling in love. It’s much more subtle than that.)

Hunger Affects Your Preferences

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How curvy a man prefers his date to be may depend on his situation at any given moment, find researchers Martin Tovee and Viren Swami. In one study, the duo stopped men at a campus dining hall and asked them to rate the body shapes of several dozen women. While all guys preferred figures that represented a normal weight, hungry men were more attracted to women on the heavier side of the range than those who had already eaten. The same thing happened in a follow-up study when guys were in a stressful situation: Compared to their mellow peers, they chose curvier, more rotund (actually, overweight) figures as their womanly ideal. The upshot: If a man feels hungry, threatened or uncertain, he tends to prefer more robust-looking female figures — which may subconsciously remind him of strength, control, nurture and independence.


Your Body Said Something Irresistible

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In an hour at a singles bar, average-looking women could be approached by up to four men, found Monica Moore in her study at the University of Missouri. What were these sirens doing? Making more than 35 body-language gestures — smiles with eyebrows raised; short, darting glances; arm flexes; hair flicks; neck caresses and other “displays.” Meanwhile, Moore found that a beauty who sits there doing nothing is unlikely to be approached at all. Only when a woman’s body language expresses some interest do men feel comfortable making a move.

You Wore Crimson And Rose

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Like moths to a flame — that’s how attracted we all are to the color red. Wearing red increases a woman’s chances of being asked out — and to have her date splurge on her — finds a study at the University of Rochester. The simple explanation: Ladies in red are perceived as more sexually receptive due to the color’s associations with fertility. Sure enough, the researchers found that single women who posted photos of themselves in online dating sites — wearing crimson, scarlet, fuchsia and other reddish hues, even on just a T-shirt — were more than two times likelier to be interested in casual sex than those wearing other any other color of the rainbow. For men, the color red has association of high status, which may be why women give guys — wearing, say, red ties — higher attractiveness ratings. Simply wearing the color may trigger a virtuous cycle: It encourages us to act sexier because we expect others to think we’re hotter (women) or more confident and powerful (men).

You Chose The Perfect Perfume

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Your signature scent — whether it’s Chanel, Shalimar, or Patchouli — becomes you. Literally. Fragrances may amplify and advertise your unique genetic makeup to potential partners, finds a study at the Max Planck Institute in Germany. People who share the same variants of immune system (MHC) genes often preferred the same scents (rose oil, musk, or vanilla, for instance). This suggests that particular scents work best with particular body chemistries — and that we know intuitively what fragrances smell best on us. Indeed, a recent Czech study found that when volunteers’ sweat was mixed was their preferred perfume (versus a random one), impartial noses gave the resulting mélange much higher ratings.


You Had Chemistry On Top Of Chemistry

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We all know oral contraceptives are useful — for reducing flow, cramps, and preventing unplanned pregnancies. The surprise is that the Pill may also lead to unintended romantic quandaries. A U.K. study found that women who were on oral contraceptives when they met their partners were, years later, likelier than non-users to be turned-off, sexually dissatisfied, and eager to fantasize about an affair. But here’s the interesting part: They were also generally more satisfied with their partner’s (non-sexual) contributions, and therefore less likely to separate. The researchers explain: Under Pill-driven conditions of high-progesterone and low fertility, women go for relationship-worthy qualities such as wealth and intelligence more than high-testosterone traits (biceps and block jaws) that are associated with flings. Oral contraceptives may also lead women to reverse their usual preferences in male body odor. Once a woman goes off the Pill, her other instincts complicate the relationship.

Could it be the tone of her voice?

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Whether she’s aware of it or not, the pitch of a woman’s voice increases a notch (becoming higher but not shrill) when she’s flirting, finds a study at McMaster University in Canada. Conveniently, men much prefer these high-pitched dulcet tones over deeper ones. A woman can strike her highest chords around ovulation, when she’s likeliest to conceive. Another coincidence: This happens to be the time of month that men give female voices the highest attractiveness ratings.

Women Use Pick-Up Lines, Too

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Women are pickier than men, right? Not true, says a speed-dating study at Northwestern University. When men remained seated and women rotated around the room, approaching a new man at every table, the women acted more like guys — that is, they appeared to have lower standards. Regardless of gender, whoever makes the first move is less picky than the people they target, the researchers found. When we invest an effort, we’re more “into” the people we hit on than we’d be if they approached us first.

Your Limbal Rings Are Riveting

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The eye’s limbal ring falls into the category of something that’s overlooked but not unseen. It’s the dark circle around the iris that enhances the whiteness and brightness of the sclera (the whites of the eyes). Researchers at the University of California at Irvine asked people to rate sets of faces that were identical except for the eyes — one had dark and distinct limbal rings and the other had none. The outcome? Whether male or female, the faces with prominent limbal rings were considered more attractive. The likely reason is that a dark, well-defined ring is a signal of youth and health — qualities that people seek in mates. It’s thickest and most prominent through the early 20s and fades — often becoming nonexistent — with age and medical conditions.

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