8. Allocate date nights
Keep the spark alive by keeping the excitement alive. This is especially true if you are saddled with kids, or if both of you have busy careers and not much time for each other. Allocate date night at least once a week and make an effort to focus all of your attention and strength on your partner. Have fun with each other and relish each other’s company as much as you can. Whether it is trying the new sushi joint down the street, or heading for cocktails in the city, ensure that you set aside time to do something meaningful and fun together.