9. Do what pleases your partner
If you want to keep the intimacy alive, then you are going to have to speak your partner’s love language. Even if you are not a fan of sushi, plan a date at a Japanese restaurant because you know he loves it. You should make the effort to indulge in activities that your lover enjoys, no matter how dull it may seem to you. Who knows? You may just realize that what they enjoy doing is not so tedious, after all.