4. “I can change all the things I don’t like about my partner”
Attempting to change someone means you have expectations of who you want them to be. Wouldn’t it be better and less disappointing to accept a person for who they are? Both the good and bad qualities. Trying to change a person tends to backfire and may cause resentment.
5. All free time should be spent together
Over time the infatuation fades, the longing and “not getting enough of each” other will also fade. Remember that your partner had a life before you met and this life should not revolve around you now that you are an item. However, you should still make time for each other.