In the mood?
Ask yourself or your partner: Are you really too tired? Or are you just tired of him/her? Are you getting him/her in the mood? If your version of foreplay is “Honey, brace yourself,” you may want to try doing things differently. You may need to work a little harder to motivate, inspire, seduce or attract your partner.
If your husband is exhausted from a busy day, try to do some things that will decompress him. Run a bath and let him relax while you put the kids to bed. Even the smallest gesture can seem romantic to your partner.
Talk to your doctor for more information about whether biochemical and hormonal factors can be contributing to a low or high sex drive.
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